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Before I jump into the discussion about people pleasing, I want to explain the concept of Acknowledgement to
strengthen your Spiritual Wellness.
Increase your Acknowledgement of what is around you in order to build trust, knowledge and foresight to manage your personal struggles.
There will be times when you do not understand why “a certain thing” happened in your life, and you will not know if it happened to you or for you.
There will also be times when you cannot seem to shake the residual effects of “that certain thing” BUT
There are special promptings and messages that show up as direction for your journey.
Biblical Scripture is my personal compass because the content found within it has helped me to elevate out of various dark places in my life.
You can utilize whatever word inspires you to take action, you just need discernment to notice the direction that is found within the text.
I’ve used the word direction repeatedly because the word that inspires you needs to have a layout of forward progression.
Take a look at the diagram above.
The Energy Enhancer/ (Scripture) is: Genesis 50:20-21
The direction found within is: “Don’t Be Afraid.”
The knowledge gained is: God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives
The Trust Factor is: I will provide for you and your children
The Personal Struggle Statement is: You intended to harm me
Acknowledgement of all the factors contained in the scripture allow you to freely move in Peace. You are essentially giving a head nod to the fact that the opposition had it out for you, they tried everything in their power to trap you, but the intention for your life is greater than any plan they could think of or imagine SO THEREFORE God’s word over your life cancels out their plan.
PERIOD.
You will find your blessing (Peace) on the other side of your personal struggle.
Face whatever you need to face and deal with whatever needs to be dealt with. By doing so you remove its power over your life.
You were designed to be a creator, an innovator, a mountain mover and an overcomer.
It’s time to live!
Now, a quick word about being a people pleaser or as I sometimes refer to them as “a performer.”
Are you the type of person who feels like you always have to be doing something to gain attention or support from others
Do you often feel overlooked or isolated if you are not helping someone by providing a solution to their problems
Do you neglect your self-care needs by putting the needs of others before your own
If any of these people pleasing/ performer traits sounds familiar to how you move in this world, it’s time to have a long talk with yourself and make different choices.
Neglecting your needs to appease others is a quick way to achieve mental, physical and emotional exhaustion.
When we fail to establish boundaries with others and we willingly perform in order to gain their acceptance, we are merely acting, and just like in the entertainment industry, we are not showing up authentically. You are uniquely and wonderfully made. Acknowledge that and walk in the acceptance that your needs matter too.
I am sharing 3 tips to help you put down the script and stop performing:
Realize that your needs are important
Develop an Action Plan to prioritize what you need
Ask yourself this question each day: “Did I choose me today?”
I’ve shared a lot today so let’s seal it with a prayer.
In my eBook Pray with Ease… I talk about Energy Enhancers.
To help you understand the concept, Energy Enhancers are the same as scripture, and scripture is inspired word.
Scripture inspires life, guidance, healing, love, encouragement, support, creativity, implementation, revelation and new beginnings.
I often use the following Energy Enhancers to get inspired!
Exodus 3:7-8 The Lord said, “I have seen the misery of my people
in Egypt, and I have heard them crying out because of the slave
drivers. I know how much they’re suffering. I have come to rescue
them…”
Exodus 3:17 “I promise I will take away your misery.”
Psalm 4:8 “In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, Lord,
make me dwell in safety.”
Psalm 5: 11-12 “But let all who take refuge in you be glad; let
them ever sing for joy. Spread your protection over them, that
those who love your name may rejoice in you. Surely, Lord, you
bless the righteous; you surround them with your favor as with a
shield.”
Psalm 7:17 “I will give thanks to the Lord because of his
righteousness: I will sing the praises of the name of the Lord Most
High.”
One of the common themes within each of these 5 Energy Enhancers is Safety, and where there is safety there is freedom.
Freedom to be loved, creative, spontaneous, open-minded, vulnerable, expectant and relaxed.
Scripture will set your soul on fire with confidence, boldness and power!
Keep a handful of Energy Enhancers ready and available for use at any given time.
During your study time, search for scriptures that speak to you directly. Take notice of the types of scripture that you are drawn to. Is there a common theme? Are you drawn to prosperity, grace, safety, revelation, etc.?
Once you’ve found a few scriptures that speak to you, write them
down on a flashcard and keep them close to you for instant inspiration!
Listen to this short audio reminder to help you keep God on Your Calendar. I pray you have a great week and thank you for being a part of the Origins of Peace Community!
For those of us who are Introverts, a need to feel safe and prepared is always present for us to show up as our best selves for important conversations.
With the purpose of conversation being to exchange ideas and information, how can we effectively do that if we are feeling overwhelmed or anxious about what to say, how to get noticed or how to
keep our palms from sweating during the process!
Perhaps you are like me and crave interactions that aren’t forced and provide freedom for you to show up as your true, authentic self.
Maybe you long for genuine connections that will hold space for you, your voice and your ideas.
If this sounds like you, you’re definitely in the right place!
I’ve prepared a resource filled with solutions to help you become a valued contributor in any conversation.
Most people understand that effective communication is an essential component for being noticed and taken seriously when it truly counts.
I am here to help you achieve this by equipping you with a guide that will show you:
How to use silence as your power tool
How to show up better prepared for the conversation
How to increase the value of your voice
How to freely express your personality and lean into the conversation by leveraging your strengths
These tips are my go-to for showing up ready for the conversation!
And if you happen to be an Introvert, an advocate of an Introvert or someone who simply wants to gain tips for effective communication, complete the contact form below to be added to a special email list dedicated to these types of resources.
This week let’s stay focused and be consistent.
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You will receive the following:
✨1 Visualization Session
✨1Solutioning Session
✨1 Customized Peace Map
This session is essential for helping you to uncover the gaps and challenges that are keeping you from obtaining your deepest desires. You are the co-creator of your destiny. After completing this workshop, you will come away with clarity, intention, assurance and a concrete plan to get started.
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